All the Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right

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  • Paperback
  • 160 pages
  • All the Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right
  • Ellen Fein
  • Italian
  • 22 June 2017
  • 9788817014977

10 thoughts on “All the Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right

  1. says:

    Hey girls Are you shallow, desperate, immature, have no concept of reality or love, slightly sociopathic, and brain dead Is it just too damn hard to keep your man at your heel Are you tired of yanking that chain all day long Then The Rules is just the book to feed your fantasies Honestly, what the shit kind of horrible person would write something like this This book is sexist towards men AND women, absolutely shallow, ignores the real aspects of what a relationship is supposed to be built upon, and instead tells you that if you are a woman, you are supposed to have men at your feet Because apparently only then will you have them loyal to you forever Come on girls, grow up Men are not as evil as your man hating senses may perceive them to be What does this book teach you It teaches women how to manipulate men in order to keep em following them around like dogs And obviously this is a piece of cake in bizzaro world where men have no brain in their head to think with And if you do that, like play hard to get cuz that s totes romantic they will be crazy about you forever and ever and will never cheat on you, because you re making sure that you re the center of their universe You re making sure that they fucking worship the ground you walk upon, that they wait by the phone all day waiting anxiously for the sound of your sweet, beautiful breath, basically all that master slave horse shit Dear men, on behalf of all the women with brains, I apologise I m sorry that these women who wrote this shit are giving your girlfriends these horrible ideas about you and what they should do with you I m sorry that this book pretty much describes men as disgusting monkeys who have not a speck of human emotion, and I m sorry this shit is published I know you re not like this, and even if some of you are, it s not because you re a man Why do we have dating books like this Dating books with these ridiculous, shallow ideas with no understanding of the true foundations of a relationship This is not even dating This is like a last resort for women who are too damn stupid and paranoid to keep a relationship And if you re a woman and you have trouble with a relationship, but you are not stupid, and not paranoid and have a pretty good idea of what a relationship requires, THEN YOU DON T NEED THIS BOOK You re already too good for this book Move along, go read something else, don t waste your time feeling bad about yourself by reading this garbage I might just be 19, but I think I have a pretty good idea of what a relationship is supposed to be And it s not about making them want you, or being paranoid about how faithful they are, or anything else being glorified in these stupid books It s about being equal, and loving each other, and growing together It s like being best friends with romantic connotations Would you ever manipulate a friend Would you play this master slave relationship or this paranoia game with a friend I didn t think so So why would you treat someone you claim to love like that And finally, isn t it funny how all these dating books are about men for women Hey girls, here s how to control men Love, some desperate single dumb ass And everyone is totally fine with that But I bet you my right arm and both my ass cheeks that if a man had written such a book about women eg Men, here s how to control your woman and make her want you Play hard to get, chicks totally dig that shit he would be deemed a sexist monster I guarantee you I didn t finish this book It made me angry And it made my male co workers angry And I don t blame them a single bit.

  2. says:

    I think this book has gotten a lot of undeserved bad critique.OK, OK, about 15% of this book is complete nonsense, and probably about 5% is outdated However, a good 80% of it is genuinely good advice.As somebody who lived 25 years of her life being the complete opposite of a Rules girl and failing miserably at building healthy romantic relationships, I found myself a little open minded than the average person when it came to this book.Here are some ways in which I think this book succeeds distinction between the ways of men and women Men and women are fundamentally different not in terms of equality or worth as human beings, but in the ways they interact, behave and what each is initially attracted to It s a scientific fact that our brains are wired differently A man s first impression is primarily VISUAL they are drawn to pretty girls and bright colors whether it s a dress, shoes, jewelry, hair is a whole other story So I don t think there s anything wrong with the suggestion to take care of ourselves so that WE can feel great about ourselves what the man thinks is only an added bonus Also, the suggestion to pay attention to what a man does, not what he says Especially with men, actions do speak louder than words encouraging women to have a life of their own outside the dating world Yes, the book is written mainly for women who are interested in finding the perfect husband However, for every time the authors tell you to wait before responding to a man or limit the number of dates you have with him every week, there is an equal amount of effort dedicated to the theme of don t just say you re busy, BE busy Obviously it won t be possible to have an engagement every single Friday and Saturday night for the rest of your life at least, it isn t for me , and sometimes you may have to keep the truth from the guy you re dating to maintain the impression that you re a social butterfly and thus be appealing to him I honestly don t see the harm in this if being alone on a Friday night bothers you, then wouldn t it be even worse to advertise it to the men you re dating And also it s really none of his business what you re doing when you re not with him while you re still casually dating the idea of putting long term goals before short term gratification Again, this book is geared primarily towards women who are looking for a long and happy marriage If that s not you, then this book is not for you But it s still no reason to trash the book boosting self confidence The way I see it, the rules are strung together with a very important thread, and that s the idea of women taking care of themselves, whether it be superficial physical pampering , spiritual doing yoga, meditation or anything else that makes YOU feel happy , and social engaging in healthy romantic relationships So for everybody who s saying this book is anti feminist, I ll have to respectfully disagree Twilight is a book about damsels in distress The Rules isn t The rules simply encourage you to be a challenge for the next guy who comes along, and I see nothing wrong with this Yes, it really sucks that dating has to be a game, but at least in the beginning I believe that s the truth and everybody who s dying to open up and be honest about EVERYTHING myself including just has to suck it up and get through to the next stage the Rules are not forever This book is about presentation, not lying They re not saying you can t be honest about your awkward ugly duckling phase in high school or the fact you re in AA just not on the first couple dates And assuming you are taking care of yourself for yourself , this really doesn t matter in the long run.Yes, there are a number of spots where it seems like this book contradicts itself the whole therapist business, the fashion magazines, etc etc , and if you want to nitpick the entire thing as though it s a classic of world literature, you re bound to find many faults But I don t think that s what this book should be treated as The biggest messages I got from it were to a take care of myself in every way, including not taking risks with the men I let into my life and b stop wasting my time and energy over dead end situations a message shared with He s Just Not That Into You If these aren t empowering messages, I don t know what is.Heck, I d even go as far as to say I d make my daughter read this, if I ever have a daughter.

  3. says:

    Long before this book was written my grandmother told me, why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free The Rules puts grandma s idea into practice This is basic, common sense stuff.don t sit around waiting for the phone to ring or be available at the drop of a hat Get a life, don t bag out on your girlfriends because some guy called, and keep the first few dates short and sweet Grandma knows best

  4. says:

    A few questions 1 What person in their right mind would take the abuse of someone not returning their calls If such a person kept chasing after such a person, doesn t that person have low self esteem, or, he believes in the scarcity of attractive women Is that what Rules women want 2 If you re always ending calls first, no matter how well the conversation is going, aren t most guys beyond high school going to figure out what you re doing Aren t most people going to feel you don t care about them if you re ending calls first ALL THE TIME 3 Why are we taking the advice of these people One of the authors couldn t hold her man and got a divorce Whether it s one fault or both, seems to me that the author isn t clear on what works and does not work Likewise, I don t listen to journalists, who make less than 60k, yet give advice on the stock market to make money Why would I get advice from people who produce far less results than I do So, I ask why are you getting advice from someone whose own relationship does not produce the listed results and 4 There isn t enough here about tapping a man s ego If women did that, instead of hanging up on guys or not returning calls, they might get results.Some of the points, like not being super available or talking about yourself only, are valid points But some of the points in here could screw up your chances with a great guy.

  5. says:

    People get the wrong idea from this book and roll their eyes, but then sit at home on Thursday night, praying for weekend plans This book advises women NOT to do that, go out and fall in love with yourself Also, don t be at the beck and call of a man They should value the time they spend with you and make plans to be with you, should be confident and proactive, romantic, straightforward, and ahead of the game If you re always waiting for them, you set the tone for the relationship The rules help you to love yourself.

  6. says:

    Didn t look like my kind of book from the get go but it s been sitting on my desk as a TBR for at least a year so I figured I should at least flip through it.So I randomly open up to a random page and this is the first thing I read Don t get sloppy about your looks Continue to exercise Men don t leave women who put on twenty pounds after the wedding or the first baby, but if you want your fiance or husband to keep drooling over you, keep fit Excuse me Am I reading an issue of Cosmo from 1955 Do women really take these time tested secrets for capturing the heart of Mr Right seriously Wow But I can t 1 star a book based on just that So I ve opened up to random pages Even men who are in love with you and want to marry you will occaisonally say things to irk you or make you nervous, such as, I ll take you there if we re still seeing each other next yearyou know how relationships go Don t get paranoid, just ignore him Most girls would make a big fuss about it and get mad Rules girls stay calm when men tease them Shut the hell up I can t take much of this Now that you know what not to do, what should you do to attract your man on campus .Eat sensibly.Remember overweight is not The Rules..Wear makeup Read Glamour and other popular fashion magazines..Don t sit in your room alone on Friday and Saturday nights reading Jean Paul Sartre Friday and Saturday nights are for mingling You can read Sartre on Monday WTF This is now making me sick to my stomach Are you seriously telling me if I read Glamour and other fashion magazines, I ll get a man Are you KIDDING me Wait Perhaps they are kidding me Is this a Satire Is this book tagged humor Sorry to say, no it isn t It says right here on the book s spine Advice Relationships sigh What I find most offensive about the above excerpt is the implication that The Rules don t even apply to plus sized ladies God forbid a fat woman needs advice on how to find a man She better wear extra makeup and carry around a Chick Lit book in her back pocket Cause you know, reading Sartre would kill her chances even rolls eyes OK One quote and then this book goes in the freebie pile at work Act confident even if you don t feel it Notice what kinds of clothes, shoes, bags, jewelry, and hairstyles the most popular kids in high school are wearing Don t try to be too different of frugal in this area You ll feel lousy, so it s not worth it To see what s hot and not, subscribe to Seventeen and Glamour Don t let your mind tell you that this is superficial and beneath you Save your mind for final exams and the SATs Don t you like boys who wear Polo shirts and cowboy boots when that s in fashion Well, they like girls who wear what s on MTV and in Seventeen Oh No It Didn t Go There Yes, girls, don t think Your only concern is to be just like everyone else Wear makeup Spend all your money on clothes Read garbage Focus all your energy on finding a man Here s my advice, for what it s worth Act like yourself Make your own decisions about who you are and what kind of man you want And if he doesn t like you because you aren t a superficial sheep, that is his problem.In my experience, the second I stopped trying so hard to find someone is when I finally found Mr Right Who loves me for the woman I am And I followed only my own rules And so should you, sister

  7. says:

    Good passages When you do THE RULES, you don t have to worry about him chasing other women, even your very attractive neighbor or his bosomy secretary You don t eat cake if you re serious about losing weight Notice how the Melanies intentionally don t carry a pen with them in order to give men their phone numbers and they don t rush to give their business cards So, in addition to a healthy diet, we strongly suggest that you shake your buns Join a gym, buy an exercise video, or go jogging in a nearby part also a great place to meet men who are jogging or walking their dogs You will have to experience a certain amount of discomfort when you can t eat a cookie and you can t call a man But you want to be fit and you want to get married, so you do what you have to do Don t aspire to the unisex look Buy feminine looking clothes to wear on the weekends as well as during the workweek Remember that you re dressing for men, not other women, so always strive to look feminine Men prefer long hair, something to play with and caress The point is, we re girls We don t want to look like boys Your gestures are soft and feminine When your hair falls in front of your face, you tilt your head back and comb back your hair with your hand from the top of your head in a slow sweeping motion Remember, men fall in love with your essence, not with anything in particular you say Men love a challenge, that s why they plays sports, wage wars, and raid corporations Later on you can reciprocate in your own way cook him dinner at your place or buy him a baseball cap Life has enough pain without adding man pain to it We can t control cancer or drunk drivers, but we can restrain ourselves from dialing his number We feel that we are simply going to die if we don t hear his sexy voice this minute That s understandable We suggest you call his home answering machine when he s at work Hang up before the beep It really works You re frenetically checking your answering machine, or if you live at home, you re constantly asking your mother if he called Basically, you re living on the edge RULES girls don t live on the edge They have plans Most women go on dates with a lot of expectations They want the man to find them beautiful, to ask them out again, and to father their children Of course, Randy should have ended the date right after the movie, but she though she could excite Bob with her great disco dancing Other women try to prolong a first or second date, for example, by inviting the man up to her apartment for a drink or coffee so that he ll fall in love with her decorating, or her home brewed decaf Don t be fooled if these men say the kinds of things that make you believe they want to marry you It happens all the time It s called Standard Operating Procedure This is deadly and boring Remember rule 9 that the first three dates are about being light and charming, like a summer breeze Don t say, No I never drink I hit a terrible bottom with drugs and alcohol two years ago and now I m sober in AA Just say, No thanks, and smile If his ad said, Marriage minded, Tom Cruise Look alike, you could start your note off with Dear Tom or Dear T.C He may wonder if other men are looking at you in your Lyrca That will good for the relationship Don t sit in your room alone on Friday and Saturday nights reading Jean Paul Sartre Friday and Saturday nights are for mingling You can read Sartre on Monday He says he loves her, but he never pinches her bottom in the kitchen and would rather watch the 11 o clock news alone in his reclining chair than cuddle in bed with his wife It s natural to want to fly off the handle every time something goes wrong in the love Kingdom we all have fantasies of marital bliss This isn t always easy Sometimes you just don t feel like shaving your legs, cooking him a hot meal, or being so sweet, kind, and loving Don t you have a letter to send or a drawer to clean out When he asks you out, silently count to five before saying yes It will make him nervous and that s good

  8. says:

    Yeeeah After hearing the authors discuss this book on Oprah or The View or some other gyno centric talk show, I kind of suspected The Rules would send me into a killing rage I was right On the upside, I knew my husband was the one for me when he read it and proclaimed it a stupid guide for assholes I love you, honey.

  9. says:

    A coworker recommended this book to me after I had gotten out of a two year relationship this was right out of college, when two years is still a significant amount of time Upon reading it, it turned into my Bible of the dating world.I have recommended this book to many friends, most of whom have not been nearly so receptive to the message in this book because they don t like being told that they have to hold back and let the man come to you.This book, to me, drilled two central themes into the reader 1 If a man is not smitten with you, move on 2 Don t always make yourself available for men, keep yourself busy.This book does take a very extreme approach to dating, but I think it does so with the recognition that readers will not absolutely follow the book to the letter For example, if you tell the reader Don t ever call a man, most readers are still going to go ahead and call men, but the book makes them think twice about why they want to call Anyways, my recommendation Give it a read, try it out, and see what you think of the results before dismissing it offhand You might be surprised at your success I was.

  10. says:

    Three stars for the sheer comedy I never fail to snicker when glancing at the title of Chapter IV But First the Product You Penny for penny I found this in the 48 cent bin at The Strand and promptly gave it to my underappreciative boyfriend, now husband , this was one of my amusing book purchases.If you don t want to read the whole book, you can go to the end of the book and read the list of all the rules, which juxtapose probably unintended hilarity Do the Rules and You ll Live Happily Ever After Rule 33 with again probably unintended poignancy Love Only Those Who Love You Rule 34.

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